The playing cards scene was indeed terrifying, in a very Winchester fam way. To make matters worse for me, tye minute I finished listening to that scene via audiobook the dog of course had to start growling at moonshadows in the hallway at 11 PM. :rolleyes
Jordan made such a big deal about a wreath that Faile gave Perrin (TSR Chapter 33).
Doesn't mean anything at all until we got involved in @Leala ni al'Dareis t'al'Caleum's wedding shenanigans.
Bain is a Maiden. Aiel. Aiel women perform the marriage proposal......by giving her chosen husband...